A good “lol” placed in a text message shows a woman you’re making a joke.

We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.

Instead, we let our cell phones control how we live!

But in this day and age, it’s absolutely essential that they learn!

Women simply won’t give a man the time of day when he doesn’t know what to say in a text message! You really only have that first interaction with a woman, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. Use these tips wisely and you’ll notice women responding more favorably to you.

You’ll want to appear as if you’re high status and busy as well and take your time in replying to her, too. You don’t want to appear too available as this makes you look needy. You’ve probably done this before already, thinking that if you didn’t reply to her fast enough, she might lose attraction for you or she might be upset with you because you take too long and that might ruin your chances with her. Come on, admit it, you’ve done this before; everyone has. It’s not a rule that should be followed to a tee, but it should be loosely followed, and if done, should put you into an attraction-building position.

I say loosely followed here because you don’t want to always text her eleven minutes after she texts you if she usually takes about ten minutes to text you. If she is in a pattern of texting you every ten minutes or so, and you have seven texts between you, take 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 8 minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 13 minutes. They’re more of the natural timing texts between friends would be.

After that, it’s all about the text game, so you really have to master what you say. You’ll be getting her to say “Yes” to go on a date with you.

Any bad slip up or mistake and your potential for a date will slip away forever . You’ll be getting her laughing and saying how great of a guy you are. When the question of comes up, smiley faces are good in my book.

Then I’d check that the phone wasn’t on silent and that the vibrator was on so that I’d know for sure when I did get that text back.

And then, several minutes later, I’d go through this whole process again, after having checked my phone several more times and not seeing any new messages.

I’d look at my phone every minute or so after I had texted a woman to see if she’d replied back yet.